My Second Date – To Kiss or Not To Kiss?

How do you know if you’ve blown your chance? If the opportunity to kiss someone comes and you don’t take it will you get another chance? These are the questions that were running round my head after I met my second date on Adultxdating.co.uk. She was a Swansea born girl to Bangladeshi parents. Her favorite film was Arnold Schwarzenegger’s 1985 classic ‘Commando.’ I knew straight away that I had to meet this girl. We sent many messages to each other, the tell-tale sign is when things are men looking good is when the messages you send back and forth to someone get longer and longer. The more we wrote the more we discover commonalities with free dating service sites. We discussed Arnie at great length; she wasn’t a girlie girl, but not a fully blown tomboy either. I get the feeling she mixed well with boys and knew how to handle herself around them due to her up bringing of being the only girl surrounded by older brothers. I get the feeling she had only just discovered that she was actually a very attractive adultfriend girl dating not ‘just one of the boys ’after the messages online we moved onto texting is a very powerful tool in modern dating. You feel more confident in expressing things and saying things you would be too shy to say in person. We sent many texts to each other, flirty ones, teasing ones and just ‘how is your day going?’ ones. We arranged to meet, we were going for sushi, lately I have started to go against the dinner adult date idea but this felt appropriate as our conversation always revolved around food and she really wanted to try sushi.

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We met at half seven on a Tuesday evening. I was getting butterflies in my stomach. Whenever I get nervous I envy other people, I wish I were the online adult dating sites person walking his dog without a care in the world, or my friends dating who were probably sat at home relaxing watching TV. The nerves quickly disappeared when we met, she was warm and friendly. She had big brown eyes and a cute smile. We went for drinks first. I suggested we had some cocktails. We both men and women looking at the menu and she was looking for any cocktail that was blue as it was her favorite color when we couldn’t find one I asked the barmaid to make one up and she did. I was hoping this would earn some good points! After our cocktails we moved walked to the sushi restaurant. On the way the conversation turned best free online dating site personal services not chit chat but she revealed deeper things. I thought to myself she must feel comfortable with me if she is telling me this. She was so chatty the meal was very easy and adultmatchmaker fun, I introduced her to a few dishes and she loved them all. It seemed to work out really well, this sushi restaurant was my favorite and I was in my world.

On a date I’m always trying to assess how things are going, trying to read the signs. I was trying to work out what would happen after the meal? Would she want to go home or shall I suggest drinks. I needn’t have worried; there was no hesitation we both said lets get a drink. It sounds obvious but when on christian dating sites women and men looking for a sign that someone likes you it’s often what they don’t do that gives away more than what they do in asian dating websites services. She never once mentioned she had to have an early night, she hardly looked at her phone all night, I was keeping her attention. For any guy who has read the book ‘The Game’ the author Neil Strauss refers to ‘puppy dog eyes.’ This is the look a girl dating is supposed to give when he knew she was attracted to him and he had made all the right moves. It’s the look that suggests she is under his spell. I’m pretty sure she was giving me those puppy dog eyes. Along with some pretty frantic hair stroking, we had moved so close whilst chatting that our legs had almost become one, unfortunately I saw all these signs, but I still didn’t make a move.

The next day we continued on with our texting, luckily the fact that I hadn’t made a move hadn’t really harmed my chances with her. We made another adult date for a few days later. This time we met in the day, it was a crisp, clear day so we decided to go to the park. The second sex date with her was a lot like the first. We chatted for hours; time seemed to fly by as we shared stories and banter. There was a little gazebo in a secluded area of the park; she suggested we should sit in there for a bit. Ok while you are reading this you must be assuming this is when we kissed. No, I’m afraid this sign slipped past me too. The whole time I sat there thinking I know I should teenage dating kiss her, I know she wants to kiss but for some reason I just didn’t. The christian online dating was lovely but it felt empty, I knew she was getting frustrated and must have come to her own conclusions to why I hadn’t made a move. I thought we were getting on so well that I would have another chance; I’ll matchmaker my move ‘next time.’ We tried to arrange another singles online personals date but each time she cancelled, something had come up. Eventually I got the dreaded text, ‘I’m really sorry, I think we should just be friends.’ Ouch!

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